Cheating Men
All You Need to Know About Cheating Men
Cheating men always leave clues, whether you want to look for them or not. Reports state that over fifty percent of the women who thought their men were cheating were right. Men will always try to cover their tracks as best they can, but they can't cover them all...
The first inklings that your man is cheating on you may not be obvious, but they will add up, after awhile. He gets suddenly defensive when you question him, even though the topic may not be related to his cheating. He might fake being mad at you so you'll be the one who “leaves”, even though in mind and heart, he's already “left”. Of, if he wants to continue your relationship too, he may hope that you will put aside your fears of him cheating if you are too afraid to ask him about it.
Cheating men always have their stories, but the more he tells you, the less they add up. He may make up stories in the heat of the moment that he sticks to, even though the times and dates don't work out. He may forget what he has told you before, in his rush to cover his tracks. He also may use his work to cover for his infidelity.
You will start to feel disconnected from your husband or boyfriend. There may also be other problems that you'd need to work out even if he wasn't in an affair. Sometimes men fall into affairs to get away from the problems in the relationship they already have. That does not mean his infidelity is your fault.
He may stop inviting you to do things with his friends or co-workers. Cheating men sometimes confide in their co-workers and they don't want them spilling the beans. Or he may be having an affair with someone at work. That happens too, and it worries him to have you and the co-workers speaking together.
Cheating men may display mood swings that aren't like them. This is usually caused by the internal struggle and conflict that he's going through.
You may experience a sudden lack of intimacy on his part. It may not even manifest itself “in the bedroom” but he doesn't want to share things like he used to in the past.
Your sex frequency may change radically, or it may not change at all. Cheating men may use sex to make you believe they're still “there” for you, but more often he will shy away from sex with you, because he feels guilty, and doesn't want you to be able to tell that he's been with someone else.
The last clue that you might be involved with a cheating man is a feeling in the pit of your stomach, like you know what's happening. You've seen the signs, and they all point the same way. You can decide to try to save your relationship or not, but a decision must be made.